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Miss Petrie got in some more riding time at the Galloping Grace Youth Ranch in Rio Rancho last week.

She had been wanting to ride Black since I had mentioned to her that he had been sick. He’s a 30-something year old horse and this poor old man had an evil tooth infection that caused him to have very gross nasal drainage. I guess three year old girls have their reasons…
Anyway, Miss Petrie has loved horses since she was about 18 months old. I’m not exactly sure why, because her dad and I know nothing about horses, but I hear this is a pretty normal little girl thing. She’s finally at the age that she can start to ride a horse with lots of assistance and GGYR allows kids to come twice a month for riding with very experienced volunteers. And it’s free.
When I stopped working when Miss Petrie was born, I became committed to seeking out enriching activities for her and for our family. Now, there are so many things you can pay to do that are enriching, but when one of the breadwinners stops working, you have to be creative about finding inexpensive or free activities. I knew all the regulars: the park, museums, the zoo. But I knew there was only so much time we could spend at those places with a baby/toddler in tow.
So I did pay to take Miss Petrie to a baby gymnastics class when she was six months old. I made friends with other women who were taking time from their careers to raise their children. I found out about a local moms club while taking Miss Petrie to her class. I joined the club and then started attending a weekly playgroup. When Miss Petrie was a baby I didn’t go to many of the activities besides playgroup, but as she’s gotten older, taking her out to club activities has become part of our weekly routine. These activities are usually free or there is a nominal fee paid to the business we are patronizing. This month we’re going to a corn maze, a pumpkin patch, the Albuquerque Balloon Museum for children’s hour, and a Halloween costume ball potluck.
And even though I’ll pay about $20 for those four activities, I feel like Miss Petrie will learn something new, we’ll celebrate fall in a way unique to Albuquerque and we’ll enjoy time with good friends.
There are so many other facets to my family’s take on frugality, but that is for another post. Today I wanted to celebrate all the wonderful activities we enjoy on a regular basis.
Enjoy your day.